Discipleship in the Home with Dr. Matt Friedeman
September 22, 2022
Dr. Matt Friedeman’s beloved book Discipleship in the Home has been updated into a second edition. This book has given helpful direction and insight to thousands of parents. Today we look at the basic argument in the book and what has been updated in this edition.
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Andy
This is a combined episode with a life changing discipleship with Matt Friedman, and we're going to do some introductions here as it comes along, but I'm so thankful for you being a part of this community and we look forward to sharing this content.
Matt
With you.
Matt
Hey, friends, great to have you with us today.
Matt
Remember the place for a man?
Matt
For a woman, completing all their powers is in the fight.
Matt
And right now, today, somewhere in the world, making disciples of the nation.
Matt
So stay tuned and stay encouraged.
Matt
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Matt
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Andy
Of jointly right, absolutely right, combine it to podcast.
Matt
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Matt
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Andy
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Matt
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Matt
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Speaker 1
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Matt
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Matt
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Andy
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Speaker 1
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Andy
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Andy
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Andy
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Matt
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Matt
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Andy
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Matt
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Andy
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Matt
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Ha ha ha.
Matt
Of that, that's for.
Matt
Sure, so anyway.
Matt
Great stuff.
Matt
Listen, I like to usually talk about an issue before we get to the thing, and you are the thing today.
Andy
Let's do it, yeah.
Well, thanks for saying.
Matt
So we're going to do 5 discipleship principles from the book of and I I'm not going to tell you what it is yet.
Speaker 1
Ha ha ha.
Matt
But we're going New Testament today, yes.
Matt
And it's your wheelhouse.
Matt
So we're excited about that.
Matt
First off, real quick, I want to get to this.
Matt
I saw an article in Christianity Today.
Matt
I actually was zipping through today and saw this.
Matt
I thought, isn't that interesting?
Matt
And the name of the article Andy was our pulpits are full of empty preachers.
Matt
10s of thousands of pastors want to quit but haven't.
Matt
So what's going on?
Matt
And when I found out that empty preachers I thought of TS Eliot, the Hollow man.
Matt
The empty man, blown to and fro by the wind and this is what that the CT article said.
Matt
That apparently.
Matt
Uhm. In January of 2020, 129% of clergy had thought about quitting, but less than a year later, 38% were thinking about quitting. Wow, that's stunning. We're talking about 1/3 and more of our clergy out there.
Matt
Thinking I don't want to do this anymore.
Matt
Yeah, now this is what, by the way, everybody picked up on this.
Matt
The Washington Post picked up on the Wall Street Journal. They calling it the great Ministry resignation that they think is on the horizon. Yeah, but this whole article is 25 pages.
Matt
They say it's reason to think that the more likely alternative is that pastors aren't going to quit nearly so much as that, and that's even more concerning.
Andy
Right.
Andy
Right hip to empty printy preachers concept.
Andy
That title is really interesting.
Andy
Our pulpits are full of empty preachers.
Andy
Normally you think our our pulpits are empty, right?
Andy
You think the pulpits being empty, but it shifts that language to say empty preacher.
Matt
OK, let's go real quick.
Matt
Yeah, top of our head.
Matt
You've done a significant amount of pastoring. I'm currently a pastor. I've been doing it for 22 years as at the at the current church I'm at why are guys apparently burned out gals as well?
Matt
Why are people burned out and thinking about quitting?
Andy
Yeah, it's interesting because as this has happened, it's been a phenomenon.
Andy
Some people call it the great resignation that what's happened.
Andy
Since 2020, as a result of COVID, I think some people see that as a cause.
Andy
But as this happens, you wonder what is leading people that place.
Andy
But the challenge for preachers, and I've heard this from many people, I've made a transition in that period as well.
Andy
I didn't transition out of ministry or out of preaching, but I left full-time, kind of like local church ministry for serving in a seminary.
Andy
And so people have talked to me over the last year and wonder about that.
Andy
The challenge is there aren't many places for preachers to go.
Andy
I think that's part of why people.
Andy
Aren't there might be people who are thinking about leaving but aren't leaving.
Matt
Yeah, what do I do if?
Matt
I don't do this.
Matt
Right, right.
Matt
I mean, you go to school for this, you get trained for this, you do this for a while.
Matt
And guess what?
Matt
There's not a lot of other executive positions that are going to want you because you've.
Andy
Got church experience right?
Andy
And while that does have executive experience.
Andy
And skills that people have learned.
Andy
It's not easy to convince people in the business community that that's a transfer, but also like the fulfillment of it.
Andy
Like I think one of the challenges or maybe you're going to get.
Andy
This is that.
Andy
Why are people in a place where they want to leave?
Andy
Well, there certainly are pressures in the local church, but at the same time, is there something happening with the empty preacher?
Andy
Like, why are we empty?
Andy
And I think that that's probably the thing that needs to be.
Andy
Challenged the most.
Matt
OK, I I think the reason for this is going to come right out of our five things I would do if I were the burned.
Matt
OK.
Andy
Right. Yeah.
Matt
Now and how to hang in there when you just feel like I want to quit.
Matt
And I think these five things I think are tremendous antidotes.
Matt
I want, once you speak into them, the first one, actually, I think all of these.
Matt
They're obviously none of my rocket science, but we're not doing them.
Andy
Hmm, that's it.
Matt
So you can say all you want about vitamins and minerals and a healthy diet, but if you're not eating a healthy diet, knowing about it isn't really helpful.
Andy
That's right, right.
Matt
So these are things we know about, we're just not doing it.
Matt
First off, is what we call the means of grace, and that's basically the spiritual disciplines of having.
Matt
There are time with the Lord everyday.
Matt
You know.
Matt
Jesus, we suspect had three times of these three times they would go to the temple during the day.
Matt
If they couldn't get their, they'd stop wherever they were.
Matt
They would face the temple and they'd go through a list of benedictions and an attack on to all.
Matt
Jews were doing that at the time of Jesus.
Matt
We know Jesus was doing that so three times a day.
Matt
For him, probably something that equaled an hour and a half to two hours, yeah, that's was normative for Jesus and he had an extraordinary life where if you're not doing that, you're going to get burned out.
Matt
But what I'm fascinated by is the number of pastors that will say, well, I'm not really doing.
Andy
Right in in the last year since I've been serving this role, I've done more events for pastors, and I'm often surprised at how many people will admit, just, like freely offer it up, that they don't have a personal quiet time.
Andy
And I think one of the antidotes to this.
Andy
Is seminary education.
Andy
And the similar education in the spirit that we offer here at West Bill summary, if somebody comes through our seminary program, they are going to be put in a position that in order to get a good grade, in order to get past a class, they need to have a regular quiet time and they need to be able to spend time in scripture, right?
Andy
And when you ask people and like honestly, if a pastor is listening to this and they're wondering, like, I'm feeling burnt out.
Andy
Honestly, actually, how is your quiet time right?
Andy
Do you have one?
Andy
Are you spending time with the Lord Daily?
Matt
Right, so the means of grace have two sides of them.
Matt
As far as we can tell, the the first side is piety, so the works of piety and piety prayer.
Speaker 1
Right.
Andy
Yes, yes.
Matt
It's searching the scriptures.
Matt
It's fasting, something that almost no American does, right.
Matt
It's regular fasting.
Matt
And for the early church and for the early Methodists that was twice a week, Wednesday and Fridays, they fasted.
Matt
So it's fasting, it's scripture meditation.
Matt
It's being in a small group and in a large group.
Matt
They call it Christian conferencing in the day, but on the whole what that meant was I'm part of a regular fellowship and part of a small group.
Matt
So that's the works.
Right.
Matt
The other one, I think, is too often neglected or the works of mercy.
Matt
Yes, to go to some place in your community where there are desperate and needy people and spend an hour or two a week and those two things together.
Matt
It's powerful.
Matt
That's how you can be with Jesus and you know.
Matt
Work somebody say not work with Jesus.
Matt
Doing a work of mercy.
Matt
All contrary, and as much if you've done it to the least of.
Matt
These, you've done it under me.
Matt
You want a personal relationship with Jesus?
Matt
Go serve him in the poor, and that personal relationship will be magnified.
Matt
So I just would say the works of mercy, the works of piety we call together the means of grace, are exceedingly important for all people.
Andy
Right.
Matt
Let alone pastures that feel out feel like they're burned out right now.
Matt
The second thing I would say is this.
Matt
I think if your.
Matt
Passion. He's a pastors.
Matt
Group and by the way, by zoom.
Matt
This is easier than ever before.
Matt
Twice a week.
Matt
I don't why I get to have two of these, but I have two excellent ones.
Matt
Basically, well, actually, they both.
Matt
Former students that feel more like peers to me.
Matt
But on Monday and on Friday, I get together with two circle groups of pastors that fortify my soul. Yes, we do A5Q group by the way, OK?
Matt
But in that five Q group, we're doing real sharing and confessing, and these are my struggles.
Matt
It's a beautiful thing.
Andy
Let me jump in, because one thing I think would be helpful for people think about particularly lay leaders who are listening to these.
Andy
Broadcast you might say, well, what does this have to do with me here?
Andy
So as a pastor, I loved it when my the people I was serving.
Andy
I I try not say my people, but they would come to me and say, how are you taking care of yourself?
Andy
Here, here's what you are.
Andy
You look, I'm glad to put that out there.
Andy
And if you can encourage people to, you can encourage your pastor to make sure this is happening.
Andy
And even.
Andy
Provide some accountability to your pastor.
Matt
Yeah, and forget about your passion.
Matt
Do it.
Matt
Do it for.
Matt
You Oh yeah, yeah.
Matt
Listen, this is important, for that was going to be the kicker, but you.
Matt
Got you. Got to kick.
Andy
I'm sorry. Jump the gun.
Matt
Up before the kicker and that is if you want to be an awesome layman or a non burned out layman do these things.
Andy
Amen. Amen.
Matt
You need a group of people you can get together and share with.
Matt
The third thing is simply this and debits going on.
Matt
Yeah, yeah, yeah, but stay healthy.
Matt
Get healthy.
Matt
You know, we all could lose some weight.
Matt
For the most part, most of us need to lose some weight.
Matt
We probably need to start eating better.
Matt
We need to get more sleep.
Matt
That's just a healthy dynamic there that is so very important.
Andy
Less TV?
Andy
Is that all your points to drop off the maybe, maybe say I don't need to pay for Netflix?
Matt
Ah, it's no.
And I.
Matt
Uh, hang on.
Matt
Just me, boy.
Matt
You you step in something right there.
Andy
Oh, I got Matt going.
Matt
Screen time of all kinds?
Matt
Yes, do the screen time you need to do, not the screen time you want.
Matt
To do right.
Matt
We've got a new book coming out here real soon called the new Discipleship in the home has a whole chapter on that.
Matt
OK, and if you want to destroy your kids brain, give him a screen.
Matt
And say have at.
Matt
It wow.
Matt
Yeah, but the same thing I think would go for us.
Matt
Good, good stuff there.
Matt
The fourth thing is you've got to have a good theology of.
Matt
God in order to stay in tune to the pastor or to your lay.
Matt
Work, and basically that means you need to know that you're surrounded.
Matt
Gave up.
Matt
Gave a sermon on this to Wesley.
Matt
Both cemetery long, long ago.
Matt
You are surrounded, so when you get into Christianity, no, you're surrounded by evil.
Matt
You're surrounded by the devil.
Matt
You're surrounded by his demons.
Matt
You are surrounded.
Matt
A lot of people get into Christianity, or by extension, they get into the ministry thinking, and this is going to.
Matt
Be so great.
Matt
You know, this is just gonna be joy and love and and when I go into the pasture, my people going now they might not like the last guy, but the last guy can't preach, like out.
Andy
Oh man, just wait till they hear me.
Matt
And preach.
Matt
You know, wait till they hear me.
Matt
Wait till they get a hold of my personality.
Matt
Everything is going to go great and they forget something.
Matt
You're surrounded by evil now.
Matt
Might not be laypeople, but sometimes it is.
Matt
But you are surrounded.
Matt
But the good theology comes to this.
Matt
You have a greater surrounding, yes, Amen and God.
Andy
Right.
Matt
And so in the Psalms, for instance, there's that word surround, surround, surround, and it talks about both dynamics.
Matt
You're surrounded by evil.
Matt
Surrounded by difficulty, surrounded by the devil him.
Matt
Self but you are surrounded by God.
Matt
You're surrounded by truth and righteousness, and you've got to recognize, boy, when I signed up for this Christianity thing, or when I signed up for this ministry thing, I signed up to be surrounded.
Andy
Yes, I love that.
Andy
I love that imagery.
Andy
I'm surrounded.
Andy
If we can pull that power into these difficult points, I think that that's what God can use to help us.
Andy
So we're not empty pastors.
Matt
So, well, one last thing here.
Matt
We need to become a people of Thanksgiving.
Matt
So this is I shared with a discipleship group not long ago.
Matt
So, you know, I've started a new discipline.
Matt
I've decided I'm going to write down every morning three things I'm thankful for.
Matt
So start doing it and I shared that with him and one of the guys was a former prisoner, he said.
Matt
Well, I tell you what I did every morning, says I.
Matt
Before my feet ever hit the floor, I would.
Matt
He went down on his knees so his feet hadn't hit the floor yet.
Matt
His toes had his feet.
Matt
Hadn't he said before my souls?
Matt
Hit the floor.
Matt
I would give thanks to God for 20 things I said.
Speaker 1
Hey, man. Wow.
Matt
Well, 20 is better than three.
Matt
No question about it.
Matt
Then I read something awesome and it was this, and you're not going to get any meaning out of this at all when I read it.
Matt
But it's X is 38 versus 27, the 100 talents of silver we used to cast the basis for the sanctuary and for the curtain 100 basis for the 100 talents, one talent for each base.
Matt
You're thinking, excuse me, there were 100 sockets that served as a foundation for the sanctuary.
Matt
So ancient Jewish wisdom started teaching. Therefore there ought to be 100 blessings coming out of your mouth every day, because that's the foundation for holiness. I started to try to do that to 100 hundred, OK?
Andy
Wow, Matt.
Matt
The road thank you, Lord Jesus, for the color green.
Matt
Thank you, Lord Jesus, for the red light that says stop.
Matt
That is the rule of law.
Matt
I thank you for the rule of law.
Matt
Thank you, God, for when you say go, because that's one of the chief words of the New Testament.
Matt
Thank you for going and I just start thinking.
Matt
I just let my mind drift and go and it's it's it's a.
Matt
Oh, I love it.
Matt
OK, what?
Andy
It's 3 to 20 to 100.
Matt
And do that 100 times a day and your mind starts thinking on a whole different level. So check out that five Q discipleship.com Quick Start guide. I think you'll really like that.
Matt
Folks, that's one of the ways you can stay healthy is do that with other pastors, do that with other laymen, do with other people.
Matt
And sometimes, Andy, I've got like.
Matt
Seven or eight of those groups going a.
Matt
Week feeds my soul.
Andy
Wow, amazing.
Matt
I'm excited to have you on the program today.
Matt
Because Andy, you are going to share with us something we've been doing across the last several weeks of this program and that is 5 things out of a certain book of the Bible.
Matt
Yeah, that are discipleship lessons for us today, right.
Matt
So you happen to be an expert on the book of?
Matt
That's right, Jude.
Matt
Now how many verses did you have?
Andy
It's only 25 verses.
So the whole bunch.
Matt
And can you squeeze?
Matt
Five to South shipping spells out of Jude.
Andy
I I don't know.
Andy
I did Deuteronomy a few months ago, so that was a little easier.
Andy
I had a lot.
Andy
More material to work with.
Matt
OK, we're going to bracket this.
Matt
With start first.
Matt
Start off saying you're doing something right now, book of Jude.
Matt
That is an.
Matt
Offer to people.
Andy
Right, absolutely.
Andy
This is been an interesting thing, I never.
Andy
Dreamed that I.
Andy
Would come to love this little book so much.
Andy
But I'll tell you, Matt, before I started to study Jude.
Andy
I had a Jude less Christianity and I've gotta tell you, I just.
Speaker 1
Love this book?
Andy
Yeah, I and and.
Andy
Part of the reason.
Andy
Here's what.
Andy
My experience was with Jude.
Andy
I would read it in my quiet time once a year.
Andy
Probably one day I would read it and it take Me 2 minutes to read it and I read the beginning, read the end, look at the middle.
Andy
In the middle was crazy to me and I'm going to bring up some of that craziness.
Andy
But if you get behind what Jude is trying to do, what he's trying to communicate to his audience.
Andy
I found that it's incredibly powerful for our time.
Andy
So that's part of my other Michael Green, an apologist from the UK with somebody I found really interesting.
Andy
He said that as long as sin is rampant, as long and he has this long list of problems in the world, he says the letter of Jude will be uncomfortably in Burningly.
Matt
OK, so you are offering this?
Andy
Oh, right.
Matt
Too sure.
Andy
I didn't say what I'm doing.
Matt
No, no, that's OK.
Matt
Well, let's.
Matt
Set it up.
Matt
At the end of this, we're going to we're going to tell people how they can plug into this right for their small group, well, individually, for their small group or.
Matt
For the whole church.
Andy
That's right.
Andy
Yeah so I've I've a study that's available Andy Miller third com and so it walks people through it's five hours of content discussion guides discussion forums that leads people through this book so you know I.
Andy
Talk about I'm going to talk about it here, like in five to 10 minutes, right?
Andy
But I have five hours available at my website, so.
Matt
Five desktop ship rimple principles from the Book of Jude number one, Andy Miller.
Andy
The very first one is flexibility.
Andy
Now these kind of blend together discipleship.
Andy
Up in spiritual formation altogether, one of the things that people don't realize about Jude that's incredibly helpful is that Jude did not want to write this letter.
Andy
He starts off by saying in verse three.
Andy
Dear friends, although I was very eager to write to you about the salvation we share, he said I wanted to do this.
Andy
He then says I felt compelled to write and urge you to.
Andy
Contend for the faith, once for all, delivered to the Saints.
Andy
And then he goes through all of these challenges.
Andy
Now, look, this is relevant to us at this point because particularly as it relates to sexual revolution and the way our society is trending, I don't want to be somebody who has to talk about issues of sexuality on regulation.
Andy
I don't want to talk about rather.
Andy
Or not truth exist?
Andy
In the world, they look at the challenges of modernity.
Andy
Postmodernity where our culture is.
Andy
But you know what the job of the.
Andy
Disciple is is.
Andy
To live in their time that God called us at this point, so we have to be flexible.
Andy
In these days, I would rather write about the salvation we all share, but instead.
Andy
Because the situations have come, and what the situation is in Jude's for Jude's audience is that a group of what Richard Bauckham calls itinerant charismatics have secretly slipped in and are promoting kindness.
Andy
A big word? Antinomianism. But the idea that our fate are that God's grace is a license to sin.
Andy
That God's grace just gives us an I like what Dietrich Bonhoeffer?
Andy
Called cheap grace.
Matt
I like this thought.
Matt
I don't want to deal with this issue, but I kind of got it.
Matt
You have to.
Matt
So yeah, I got something like this in my Life OK.
Matt
You know, there's a.
Matt
Supreme Court case recently.
Matt
That overturn Roe V.
Andy
We don't want to talk about.
Matt
No, who wants to do that?
Matt
And who wants to show up out at the abortion clinic?
Matt
Now, that abortion clinic in the Supreme Court case was here in Jackson, Ms it's not 3 miles from my house, right?
Andy
Absolutely, yeah.
Matt
I don't want to go.
Matt
Out there, that's not, you know, I'm a respectable guy.
Matt
I don't like to do these kinds of things.
Right.
Matt
And you go out there and people.
Matt
I don't like you 'cause you're out there.
Andy
I'm not sure they take pictures of, you know, I've been out there as soon as they get.
Andy
Out there taking pictures of my children, yeah.
Matt
International media stuff.
Matt
It's just crazy, but and I'm not gifted.
Matt
For it, that's.
Matt
Not where I'm gifted.
Matt
Sure, sure.
Matt
And yet.
Matt
There's the issue.
Matt
It's it's 3 miles from my house.
Matt
I'm a pastor.
Matt
I'm supposed to be leading a people to topple unrighteousness in our culture.
Matt
What am I?
Andy
Going to do yeah, that's contending.
Andy
You do it anyway you contend, you get in that.
Andy
And that's the same thing we deal with, with all kinds of issues.
Andy
We could list them by the hundreds, but with abortion, with sexuality, it's a it's a pastor.
Andy
It's a it's a disciple makers job.
Andy
To be able to engage the people they're discipling about the nature of human sexuality, as it's revealed in scripture, flexibility is number 1, #2, keeping, keeping.
Andy
This is a word that's underrated in scripture, but it's a word that comes all throughout Jude. Now it's, I can say, all throughout, even those 25 verses.
Andy
He begins by saying to those.
Andy
Who have been called, who are loved in God the father and kept for Jesus Christ.
Andy
And then later he contrasts this by the way he talks about the angels.
Andy
He says they did not the angels who we would assume.
Andy
Come demons who are fallen angels did not keep their proper positions.
Andy
And so then he then says something.
Andy
Later he says they have been kept in darkness.
Andy
But then at.
Andy
The end of a letter.
Andy
He uses that word keep two more times, he says.
Andy
It's our jobs to keep ourselves in the most.
Andy
Holy faith. Now, this kind of emphasizes this dual focus that we have God's initiative in bringing us to a place of saving grace, but we have a role to in the relationship, a relationally significant task of keeping ourselves maybe through the five things we.
Andy
Just talked about pastors.
Andy
To do keeping ourselves in the most holy faith.
Andy
And then he concludes in a great way, that mostly people.
Andy
The way I knew Jude was through the last two vert 3 verses.
Andy
Now to him who is able to what keep you keep what is what, can he keep you from stumbling?
Andy
And this is the powerful message that you and I believe that there's never a time in our life where we have to send.
Andy
Because if we allow God to keep us, we do not have to fall into sin.
Matt
Good word. Good word.
Matt
What's the shepherding implications of keeping?
Andy
Oh, interesting.
Andy
Yeah, yeah.
Andy
So there's also this side where the, the keepers, you know, have a responsibility to ensure that people were serving are protected.
Andy
You know, this is 1 interesting thing, like Jew didn't want to write this.
Andy
Like he had to.
Andy
He had to fight for his people.
Andy
The shepherd has to occasionally take the staff and hit some wolves in the head.
Andy
And I think that's that's the implication here is that Jude had to step up and decide I'm going to protect this, this group.
Andy
I'm going to keep them in the fold.
Matt
Yeah, like I like both, emphasis you need to do some things to keep yourself by the grace of God.
Matt
In his hand but.
Matt
You probably need to have somebody looking over your life, right?
Matt
Right.
Matt
Also you need to be looking over someones life.
Matt
Yeah, 'cause, that's trifold. So good stuff. OK, so first to stop ship principle flexibility, second, to stop ship principle from the book of Jude keeping #3.
Andy
And the third is connected to keeping and I've your.
Andy
I think you're gonna love this because it's the works of piety, works of mercy snatching, snatching, now.
Andy
What I mean by that interesting thing that happens as we get to the pivot that comes in Jude in verse 20, after he kind of describes a problem that exists, he then says, but you dear friends, you need to keep yourself.
Andy
So we just talked about that.
Andy
Well, keep is the main verb in that sentence, and then there are four participles that support that verb.
Andy
And you can. It could be translated with an ING, ING. So how are people kept? By building, praying, waiting or or hoping, looking for something. And then the final thing that he says it comes in verse 23, save others by snatching.
Andy
So how is it that it's OK snatching them from the fire?
Andy
So this is where ***** Crosby gets the idea and rescue the perishing.
My thing.
Andy
You know, ****** them in pity from sin in the grave.
Andy
My denomination, the Salvation Army, talks about, like our call to save other people.
Andy
We need a snack.
Andy
Go do some work, like snatching.
Andy
Helping people to lead to a place of getting out of hell, quite frankly.
Andy
Is a part of the way we're kept.
Andy
So it's not just in building, praying, hoping, but also snatching snatchings a key part of the Christian faith.
Matt
So how do you do that?
Matt
How do you?
Andy
****** Oh, wait.
Andy
Well, see, I think that this is this is a challenge we need to witness.
Andy
Yeah, we need to tell other people.
Andy
Do we need to do what we can to contend for the souls of people who are around us?
Andy
And I say.
Andy
Souls is kind of a picture of the broad person as a.
Andy
Whole that we.
Andy
Believe that if if you affirm that there is such a thing as hell.
Andy
In the world that that will come at some point rather whatever form it might take, right, like we want to save people from now.
Andy
And so for.
Andy
The discipleship spiritual formation emphasis is like you're not being a disciple.
Andy
If you're not snatching, you need to ****** other people from the direction of a.
Matt
Moving torch tap.
Matt
I just think it's interesting.
Matt
There's a number of ways you could ****** You could physically put your hands on people and snatchem you could yell at them to ****** him.
Andy
Yeah, yeah.
Matt
You could, I think, the most powerful weapon to ****** someone.
Matt
Is love.
Andy
Well, of course.
Andy
Jude says ****** them from the fire.
Andy
To others, show mercy mixed with fear.
Matt
Very nice.
Andy
Snatching isn't just like, yeah, snatching is a loving.
Matt
Act yeah, it is a loving act, and sometimes it might include yelling or grabbing, you know?
Matt
But on the whole, I I think, uh, love is a powerful, powerful weapon to actually, for all these things.
Matt
Flexibility, keeping, snatching, that they're all covered by loving, one way or another.
Matt
OK, #4 and.
Andy
#4 so this is where it gets a little complicated, but this is what keeps people away from Jude is the verse that talks in verse 9, but even the Archangel Michael when he was disputing.
Matt
This is good stuff.
Matt
Good stuff, Andy.
Andy
With the devil about the body of Moses did not himself dare to condemn him for slander, but said.
Andy
The Lord rebuke you.
Matt
What's going on?
Andy
I know this is the craziest first, like.
Andy
Didn't remember you.
Andy
Did you teach your kids to memorize this?
Andy
First, yeah.
Matt
Hi, Ann.
Matt
No, I no.
Andy
OK, so here's what's happening. Like there's and if you want more on this, I actually talk with Caleb yourself, Caleb Freedom and Doctor Halo frame and I have 45 minutes that ioffer in this session where we talk through the all the Jewish sources that lead this. But essentially there was a Jewish document that existed that was called the Assumption of Moses that.
Andy
Details the fact that there was likely this moment where Michael, the Archangel Michael, and the devil disputed Satan's body. But here's the.
Andy
Point is that Michael was clearly in the right in this moment.
Andy
He could have done anything he wanted to to say.
Andy
Like he had the authority to say to say, no, you're wrong in this situation, but instead, what is it that Michael does?
Andy
He says I'm going to lean on the Lord and not my own understanding, he said.
Andy
The Lord rebuke you.
Andy
He comes in this situation where he doesn't depend on his own experience.
Andy
So it discipleship for us.
Andy
And as we're serving other people, we don't depend upon ourselves and said we rest in the judgment, we less in the way that God has already revealed himself.
Andy
So we say.
Andy
May the Lord rebuke you.
Andy
And when there's problems in the world that we can't control, we're going to contend for them as best we can.
Andy
But ultimately, we depend upon the justice.
Matt
Of God.
Matt
So I love this because just on a very practical level, there's some things that I mad freedom and can't do I can feel about them.
Matt
I can pay attention to them, but at the end of the day there's not much I can do about it.
Matt
It's nice to know we get on a whole.
Andy
Higher plane.
Andy
That's a higher plane.
Matt
Yeah, you didn't say.
Matt
A word here.
Andy
I'm sorry.
Matt
So no, flexibility is keeping it, snatching a get on a higher plane and know that there is a God that has taken care.
Andy
Yeah, still the corn one.
Right.
Matt
Of business.
Andy
There's a higher truth than you, and so, like, we want to lend a higher plane, as I have found.
Andy
Lord, plant my feet on solid ground.
Matt
There's a song.
Andy
I know it sounds.
Andy
Yeah, it doesn't.
Matt
That's very nice.
Matt
OK.
Matt
So you're doing great.
Andy
Right now it might not be going great.
Matt
Flexibility, keeping snatching. Get on that higher plane of truth and #5.
Andy
No, right now you're gonna have to let me explain this.
Andy
Don't abuse angels.
Matt
No, OK.
Andy
In the very same way verse 8, on the strength of their dreams, talking about these people who have secretly slept in, these ungodly people pollute their own bodies.
Andy
Reject authority and heap abuse on celestial beans.
Matt
Heap abuse on celestial beings.
Andy
Don't abuse Angel.
Andy
Now we have to get back in that idea.
Andy
Of what, Jude?
Andy
's audience would have thought about angels down here.
Andy
I'm going to get.
Andy
I'm going to break this all down.
Andy
I do it in a long way in my recent study, which will be a book hopefully in a few month.
Andy
As well.
Andy
Jewish the Jewish understanding of angels were they were the ones who delivered the law, delivered the written word to Moses.
Andy
And so you even see this in Stephen like he in in.
Andy
2 Stephen in Acts 7 talk like I acknowledge the fact that a new test.
Andy
My understanding is that the.
Andy
Law given to Moses came through angels.
Andy
So if that's the case, if angels delivered the law, and if these people are living as if God grace is a license to sin, they don't need the law, right?
Andy
They don't need any of the things that God has.
Andy
Already prescribed God written word that they can live by themselves, then the idea is that when we live outside of the.
Andy
Law it's as if we are hurting, abusing the messenger and the message itself.
Andy
Wow. So that that's kind of like, I go into this in greater depth to explain this, but the idea is like, if we are going to heap abuse, like if we're going to, if we are going to move against God's law, it's like we're hurting angels. Wow.
Andy
So you live within God's law. So the idea is God has revealed himself clearly through the scriptures, the old New Testament. It's the divine rule of Christian faith and practice. So when we move against that law.
Andy
We're putting ourselves in a position where we are in grave.
Matt
Danger, flexibility, keeping snatching.
Matt
Get on the higher plane and don't abuse angels.
Matt
And some of you thinking right now, man, I just need some more teaching on that.
Andy
If you'd like.
Matt
And guess what?
To do that.
Matt
We have an opportunity for you.
Matt
So tell him one more time, yeah, how they can plug into the.
Speaker 1
Right.
Matt
Andy Miller.
Matt
Exit Jesus of the book.
Andy
Of Jude, that's right. So it's called contender. It's a six week study with a 25 to 30 minute lessons that are video based and then you can you can get this for your small group, your for your church as a whole. And we walk through this and if you think I went through it too fast, I explain it in a little bit more lucid.
Andy
Way in the.
Matt
Well, six week way, yeah.
Andy
Six weeks.
Andy
So we have some time to walk through this and I think it's really powerful to help.
Andy
Must be contenders for our time, so it's going deeper in the book of Jude, so thanks so much for letting.
Matt
Me plug that here, man.
Matt
Always an honor to have you and I I like doing.
Matt
These joint podcasts you like these, OK?
Andy
Yeah, I do.
Andy
I do, I do.
Matt
You like it?
Matt
Yeah, no, I listen.
Matt
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Matt
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Andy
Me and the.
Andy
Thing with Trent, with disciples.
Andy
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Matt
See? You don't even know.
Ha ha ha.
Andy
The name.
Andy
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Matt
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Matt
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