Happy Lies with Melissa Daugherty

Melissa deftly traces the roots of today's social chaos back to a little-known (but very influential) 1800s philosophy known as New Thought. A former follower of its teachings, Melissa provides clarity and compassion mixed with a dash of loving snark as she exposes New Thought's deceptions and its many concerning tendrils within the church and our "self-help" culture.

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Transcript:

Welcome to the more to the story. Podcast I am so glad that you all have come along for an interesting conversation. Today, I'm really looking forward to it. I'm going to introduce you to our guests in just a second.

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Andy Miller III: Andymiller, the 3rd.com.

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Andy Miller III: Okay. I am so glad to welcome the podcast somebody I just met, but I've been learning about it the last few weeks. Her name is Melissa Doherty, and she has written a book published by Zondervan, called Happy Lies. How a movement you probably never heard of shaped our self-obsessed world, Melissa, welcome to the podcast.

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Melissa Dougherty: Thanks for having me on. That was a great little commercial for your seminary there. I hope none of my my professors at Southern Evangelical Seminary. Watch this because they'll think I'm like cheating on them, or something.

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Andy Miller III: Oh, that's right. No, we want to. I did say to you, a man is sure you can't get you a transfer here. No, we have a a better nil deal for you, or something like that, we'll see what we can do. No, it's great. I would love love that. Southern Evangelical has produced so many great people through the years. And I see you interact with a lot of those folks in this book here. So that's fascinating, and I do say, well, I've had your book for a couple of weeks under Vin very kindly sent this to me.

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Andy Miller III: And it's not out yet when I, when probably when this podcast, comes out, this is still an advanced copy, and it doesn't come out to the end of January, so the end of January folks. You can look for it then. But I've been a little embarrassed. I didn't know about you, and I went and found your Youtube channel.

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Andy Miller III: And my kids would really like your Youtube channel because it's really good. It's like, it's clever. It's fun. And my Youtube channel is kind of just me talking with people, but you have all like different things that you do. You have more than 250,000 people that follow you. So it's probably much higher now. But anyways, I just applaud the fact that you're on that medium and doing Youtube right as opposed to me, who's just kind of like barely using it. So you're doing a great job.

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Melissa Dougherty: Yeah, I have no secret sauce, though. It's actually kind of funny to me, because you're like, Wow, you're doing something right. I'm like, oh, I've tricked a lot of people into thinking. I know what I'm doing, because that's like the secret sauce is like you kind of just have to get on and

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Melissa Dougherty: be yourself, and have that hunger to, you know. Teach and talk about God and faith. And I think that's really what it is. It's just genuinely enjoying it. But yeah, the secret is, we don't know what we're doing. Sorry guys, I just yeah. So yeah. And you, you look like you're doing. I'm embarrassed. I don't know who you are. So yeah.

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Andy Miller III: Well, there you go. Well, I do appreciate one of the things I noticed is, this is just kind of like youtuber inside talks, so to speak, but the even just a different kind of the cuts that you make and the the edits you make kind of, like the quick changes it remind. It reminds me of, like Mr. Beast type of things. It's moving fairly fast, and I don't know again. There's no secret sauce. But I think you're doing a great job. That's what I'm trying to say.

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Melissa Dougherty: Thank you. Yeah. It's funny, because it depends on like, I wouldn't say that we're too different of a generation.

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Andy Miller III: Yeah, yeah.

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Melissa Dougherty: Yeah, a lot of it is just okay.

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Melissa Dougherty: Could I say that a little better, or whatever it is? And then you have to edit it, you know, as you go. But yeah, it's just simple, simple edits that end up turning into jump cuts. So you probably are, are a lot more

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Melissa Dougherty: teachable, and how you go about your your content. So I think that that's actually something that I would watch. I I watch your. I watch channels like yours. And then I kinda think, Oh, I've learned something. How can I apply this to.

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Andy Miller III: Yeah.

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Melissa Dougherty: You know? Yeah.

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Andy Miller III: No, that that's what I thought. That's what I thought with what you're doing, too. And I love the kind of woman on the street things that you do as well. That's fascinating, and you know, getting into your book. This is fascinating to me. I would have if you would have said, oh, Andy, tell me what you know about New Thought. I would have immediately connected, like Dale Carnegie, right like I'm aware of that, and I would have thought of

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Andy Miller III: some of those kind of power, positive thinking pieces. But

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Andy Miller III: and I've

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Andy Miller III: I've I've used in my own preaching and teaching talked about people like that you address like Oprah and Glennon Doyle. These type of folks like I find that like. But I hadn't necessarily drawn the clear connection between the 2. Because so a lot of people, if they this is probably why you say

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Andy Miller III: how a movement you probably never heard of shaped our self world. So can you help me get like even the difference between this and New Age beliefs in general, like, what's the distinction here?

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Melissa Dougherty: Yeah, it's always, almost always the 1st question somebody asks. And 1st of all, I'm impressed that you would even connect

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Melissa Dougherty: somebody like Dale Carnegie with new thought. That's to me. I'm impressed by that, because that's how

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Melissa Dougherty: many conversations I've had with people about New thought, and they don't. They just have no way to put it, and usually what they would assume. And this is what I did for years. I actually just made a video about. I was wrong about this kind of thing where? Yeah, where I've always explained myself as an ex new ager, because I thought that every wiggedy, whack belief

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Melissa Dougherty: that seemed strange was just kind of yeah, that was underneath the New Age umbrella.

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Melissa Dougherty: And I came out of New Thought right? And I would just explain it like, yeah, I was an ex new ager. But I was more into this new Thought thing. But it's still new age. It's the same thing.

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Melissa Dougherty: And then I had an epiphany a few years ago where I realized, oh, no, these are not the same thing, and it explained so much because.

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Andy Miller III: Interesting.

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Melissa Dougherty: Yes, I mean I I became a Christian at 16 and do. It's a long story, but.

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Andy Miller III: Go ahead. Go ahead. I love to hear. I mean.

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Melissa Dougherty: Hello guys.

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Andy Miller III: Tell it. I've read it, but I'm glad. I I think that that will help people understand the.

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Melissa Dougherty: Can't even.

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Andy Miller III: In the book. It's not.

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Melissa Dougherty: Yeah. And even in the book, it's not that detailed. But I mean.

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Andy Miller III: Right.

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Melissa Dougherty: The the aspect cause I mean there's a word, Count, I mean boo on that. But

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Melissa Dougherty: my editor yells at me. He's like, Oh, you gotta get the word. Count down whatever and I can actually thank him for the subtitle he came.

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Melissa Dougherty: I loved it. He was so good at that. But

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Melissa Dougherty: yeah, I became a Christian at 16. And what what should have started with

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Melissa Dougherty: this hunger to know more about God and the Bible, you know, turned into

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Melissa Dougherty: me.

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Melissa Dougherty: turning to these other pseudo beliefs, these pseudo Christian beliefs that I didn't realize weren't actually Christian. But they looked really Christian. And I'm I'm asking questions like, I mean.

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Melissa Dougherty: hey, why? Why is the Bible only written by men? What's up with that? I mean these, these sound like progressive questions today? But these were just

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Melissa Dougherty: run of the mill. Genuine curiosity. I loved God, I was like a believer. I was signed up. I was all in, but I'm like. I don't understand some of this. What's up with the wrath in the Old Testament? There's so much violence. What's going on there? And how do we know we can even trust the Bible. How is it written? What about dinosaurs? What about

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Melissa Dougherty: all these Christianity? 1? 0, 1 questions, all right, and.

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Andy Miller III: Yeah, sure.

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Melissa Dougherty: It was just like I got that. I I think of that Chloe meme. You know that where she's just giving you this look like, what are you talking about? I don't. Why are you asking me this? From majority of Christians? Majority of Christians.

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Andy Miller III: Okay. Yeah.

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Melissa Dougherty: Okay. And this was before social media. So you had to see a lot of people face to face

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Melissa Dougherty: and have these conversations. And

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Melissa Dougherty: I didn't know anything about apologetics or anything like that, and so I generally looked at most Christians as just very unthoughtful about their faith and the ones that were. Maybe they knew a lot. Maybe they had some intellectualness to them. They were not very nice.

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Melissa Dougherty: right? And so you either had. Yeah. Yeah. And honestly, I'm actually kind of vocal about this today that we still have this problem where there's maybe too much heart and too much mind. It's like it's supposed to be both, and I think too much heart, maybe, is afraid of the mind, and too much mind is afraid of the heart. You know. It's like man. If I if I show some sort of sympathy towards this person, my tribe's gonna come for me, you know. And so the and the other person. You know what I mean. It's like.

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Andy Miller III: Yes, yes.

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Melissa Dougherty: Yeah, and both are just wrong. I ran into ran into that as a true seeker, trying to learn on both ends, and I just

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Melissa Dougherty: was very frustrated. But and this is important. I grew up in a household single mom, 3 kids. God bless my mother!

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Melissa Dougherty: So much grace for her. Now. Yeah, she went through a lot and

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Melissa Dougherty: but she was always trying her best to talk about Jesus. Get us the church like I went to a Presbyterian church growing up right, and we went as much as we could. But all I remember is singing a few songs, some pizza. Yeah, like the pastor call us up in the front. We went to some Sunday school. We drew a little bit, you know, and I mean that was what it was. But what was more fascinating to me was the information I got from my family

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Melissa Dougherty: about this really super spiritual

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Melissa Dougherty: form of Christianity, you know, and I would hear stories of spiritual experiences that my family would have, and they knocked my socks off. I was like, Oh, that's cool. Yeah, I'm like, that's really interesting that you got that experience like you were. You went down this vision tunnel, and you saw the disciples, and they were telling you this spiritual message, or there was other. This sounds kind of creepy.

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Melissa Dougherty: but it fascinated me at the time, but my mom would have this thing visit her throughout her life that she called her visitor and.

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Andy Miller III: Just a sec.

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Melissa Dougherty: And I was like, Oh, I want that.

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Melissa Dougherty: It made you feel special, and that's the idea is that it made you feel very powerful, very special like. Oh, there's something in the spiritual world that wants something to do with me.

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Melissa Dougherty: And what's important to mention all of this is that

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Melissa Dougherty: I was taught about the power of our minds, the power of our words.

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Andy Miller III: Yes.

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Melissa Dougherty: And the fact that Jesus came to earth to teach us

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Melissa Dougherty: how to be like him literally. And when I say that it sounds. Oh, of course Jesus taught us that. But no, I mean literally like walking on water, being able to control the elements. And so you can like transport yourself, walk through walls. I mean, you're talking about having a control over physics

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Melissa Dougherty: because you are innately divine. And this was actually what Jesus was trying to teach us. Okay, so I.

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Andy Miller III: Loosely. Yeah.

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Melissa Dougherty: I loosely grew up with those beliefs, not really thinking much of it until I was 16 and I became a Christian, and then I became so, bringing it back to that, I became kind of I was like this pariah because I was just asking questions. And I'm like, what's wrong with me that I'm I'm wanting to be cerebral about my faith.

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Melissa Dougherty: And

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Melissa Dougherty: there was actually a lot of good experiences in that, though I still look back, even at the church that I went to, and I still, I don't agree with some of the things that they do, but I had good memories there, and so.

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Melissa Dougherty: but I ended up. I see these books on my shelf behind me. They were my family's books. I kind of started reading some of them. And I started kind of dabbling into these metaphysical beliefs that were very Christian, quoted Scripture. But it was just

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Melissa Dougherty: better like it seemed like Christianity on steroids. Yeah, like Christianity on steroids. So I started believing these things and kind of just taking them in. I became very. I would have been very progressive. I wouldn't have known what that was. I would have thought about manifestation, visualization, power in my words.

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Melissa Dougherty: I would have thought I was this powerful spiritual being. I was trying to invoke a spirit guide because my mom had a visitor. Why can't I? Yeah, I wanted to get spiritual knowledge. And

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Melissa Dougherty: I was just thinking, okay, well, there's missing books of the Bible like, what's in there. I became fascinated with this, just just getting more power, getting more supernatural

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Melissa Dougherty: experience, because it made me feel powerful, and it made me feel special. That's the simplest way I can put it. And then that my socks got knocked off when 2 Jehovah's witnesses came to my door and challenged what I believed, and in researching their religion.

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Melissa Dougherty: And this was after I had my daughter. And you know how having kids can kind of change things. It does.

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Andy Miller III: Yes.

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Melissa Dougherty: Yeah perspective check. And I'm researching them as well simultaneously. I'm learning. Oh, if they're right, then I'm wrong, because if the Bible's true, then what I believe is wrong. And it was just a domino effect from there. And that was 2011. And that's actually when I started thinking. Or that's when I realized, oh, I was in this thing called New Age.

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Melissa Dougherty: I was an ex. I was a new age. I thought it was Christian, though I truly believed that everything that I was being taught because there was a Scripture to go along with it.

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Andy Miller III: Right, right.

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Melissa Dougherty: Yeah, I mean, they talked about Jesus.

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Melissa Dougherty: and they were a Christian.

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Melissa Dougherty: That was the idea is that this is a better, more evolved version of Christianity. It's metaphysical Christianity.

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Melissa Dougherty: And that was the way it was postured. And so I just thought it was all new age.

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Melissa Dougherty: But I started realizing right away.

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Melissa Dougherty: Hold on. You're an ex new ager. I'm an ex new ager, but what you were in doesn't sound like what I was in. But oh, well, you know what I mean. And this was going on for years. I just thought it was the same thing, you know. They they did manifestation too great, but they.

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Andy Miller III: Where's this at? Okay? So after you had the Jehovah's witness, come your way. Then you're trying to figure out what's happening. Who are, who are you talking to at that point? Is this like, yeah, yeah. So I may.

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Melissa Dougherty: Yeah. No.

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Andy Miller III: Please, do.

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Melissa Dougherty: Poke in anytime, you know.

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Andy Miller III: Yes.

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Melissa Dougherty: For clarity, of course. Yeah. So this was when 2011, I start getting into online ministry with and physically minister like it was online ministry with Jehovah's witnesses and Mormons.

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Melissa Dougherty: But it wasn't just online. I mean, you're talking about connecting with people all around the nation. That's all they did. They are. I still don't know why they're they should be bigger than me. In my opinion they catered to the Christian that was trying to understand Jehovah's witnesses and Mormon beliefs. A lot of them were former. Jehovah's witnesses turned Christian. Former Mormons turned Christian, and they were just so educational.

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Melissa Dougherty: And I yeah, like I learned, I think, that there's 2 things that every Christian should do outside of regular prayer and regular Bible study

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Melissa Dougherty: is, learn about colts and take a a solid class.

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Melissa Dougherty: a reading, a study of critical thinking, because I think that those 2 things would help our way of of engaging in thoughtful conversation, and also knowing how to think in order to to debate. Well, like to argue well, but also to listen.

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Melissa Dougherty: Yeah, like in in that, I look back on it now, and I thought that was immaculate training that I was going through with the Jehovah's witnesses and Mormons, because it taught me to really love them while disagreeing, but it also taught me to really understand my Bible. So. But yeah, you had all these people

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Melissa Dougherty: kind of discipling me that had been senior Christians that used to be in these cults, and they just taught me so much about critical thinking the Bible all these things. So that was my beginning. I didn't jump into ex New Age ministry for a while, partially because I was embarrassed. I couldn't believe I'd just gone to church for like over 10 years, and not known that what I believed was this thing called New Age.

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Melissa Dougherty: And I just it kind of threw me for a loop. So yeah, I'm having those conversations. I'm having all that happen. And all of a sudden a lot of ex new agers start popping up online because people forget how new social media is. It really isn't yeah. I mean, Gen. Z. Doesn't have any idea that when my daughter was born I got a smartphone. You know. I'm.

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Andy Miller III: Yeah, yeah.

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Melissa Dougherty: Oh, look at this! It's a touch screen. Oh, my.

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Andy Miller III: Yeah.

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Melissa Dougherty: Talking to it. I'm like, that's new.

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Andy Miller III: Yes, it is.

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Melissa Dougherty: Not old. Yeah. And so you're just now getting online, getting on social media. And all these other ex new agers are coming up. And there's a exodus, a mega exodus of them just leaving.

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Melissa Dougherty: So I start, you know, getting in tune with them, and I'm again realizing I don't know what Reiki is? What is that? Yoga's new age? Who knew sacred geometry like? What is half what?

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Melissa Dougherty: Oh, psychic mediums! I've heard of that. But I've never practiced that Tarot cards okay, and crystals. I believed in these things. I even went to a psychic as a Christian, and I believed that crystals had energies. But I didn't wear crystals. I didn't practice aligning my chakras. I didn't know that there's a whole realm of people in the New Age that believed that there were entities like fantasy entities that could come talk to you like fairies, mermaids!

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Melissa Dougherty: Angels! I didn't realize that that was

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Melissa Dougherty: that even existed. I'm like no, I was more into this thing that looked more Christian. And so that's kind of how that's a longer explanation. But I from the get go. I'm like, something's a little different. And it really wasn't until recently that I realized, not only is there a difference between these 2.

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Melissa Dougherty: New age is part is we should avoid absolutely. It's it's witchcraft, it's occultic. But New thought

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Melissa Dougherty: You have movements within America that were spearheaded by New Thought leaders. You named a few of them. The the whole self-help movement is undergirded by New Thought authors, and it would be very helpful if the reader.

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Melissa Dougherty: even if they're not a Christian, would understand what new thought even teaches to know how that happened. And so, and every chapter kind of goes through what is New Thought, the history? I had to do a chapter on Relativism, because in order to understand New thought, you had to have a fluid view of truth.

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Andy Miller III: Yeah, that's good. So like with with new thought, too, like, you talk about other institutions. And one of those is the kind of ambiguous institution, alcoholics, anonymous right.

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Andy Miller III: successful and effective. Christian leader. So some of that's at the at the core of that, historically, the foundation of it. But I am interested in getting to where? Where it leads into the eighties and nineties and our time now. But tell me a little bit more about like. What, maybe, could. What could be the problem of some of those historical antecedents.

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Melissa Dougherty: I had to be very nuanced, because, like, for example, affirmations.

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Melissa Dougherty: you can have. You don't have to gasp every time you pass the Self-help section. But this is kind of why I wrote the book in the way that I did because you named one before Alcoholics anonymous. The big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous, was written by, I believe, one of the writers was Emmett Fox, a very well-known, well-respected new thought author.

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Andy Miller III: and then living that out and then embodying that you're taking what Jesus said and living it in a new way. You're living the way of well, I mean, I think I've heard many messages from people who would be orthodox followers of Jesus saying those type of things, but you know in from your own experience that this is connected to another level

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Andy Miller III: So tell it like, how is it? And people even your own story? New Christians often like, will find something and say, Hey, well, that's Scripture, or this is good. This is helping. I'm closer to God because of this. How can that be bad? So I'd love for you. Just kind of think about relativism, maybe how this expresses itself, and some of the things that you hear from Oprah, or those type of voices, and how we can be able to move forward and grow

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Melissa Dougherty: like? You're a seminary guy like it's Prolegomena like you're going back to like the the 1st principles you're talking about the truth questions that we we can ask to get to this God as as revealed in Scripture. And so when you you kind of just go down that path with them, and that's kind of where I start. If you read a lot of the interviews in the book.

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Andy Miller III: We don't love the revealed truth of God like we're choosing by. But if God has revealed Himself clearly through the Scriptures, like the perspicuity, Scriptures kind of a key doctrine. So if he has revealed himself, then we don't align ourselves. We don't love what he has said about himself instead, we then, and even, I would think.

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Melissa Dougherty: And this makes not only does this make sense, but we can show reality from the Christian worldview. It's the worldview that makes the most sense of things. And please explain the resurrection to me. You know what I mean. It's like this is what apologetics does. And they want to make Jesus's resurrection an allegory, a metaphor. Because if he actually yeah, like, if he actually rose again from the dead. There's implications to that, and that's just too judgmental. The number one rule in New Age and New thought is, is.

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Andy Miller III: Yes, I think that's right. Now. I'd love to talk about how this makes its way into the word of faith.

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Andy Miller III: And then, all of a sudden, as this was coming across, I was like I, you know, I said to kind of leaned over my wife as I don't think this is it like we're and we were really struggling because I realized, Oh, man, this is

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Melissa Dougherty: But one of those resources, you know. He wrote an entire thesis about the word faith movement and New Thought and Canyon, and he's reading Kenyon's work, and one of the things he said is that it's very highly probable, like it's to him. It's without a doubt, that he studied under Ralph Waldo Trine.

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Andy Miller III: So like. If you have this like I mentioned at the beginning, I have a course on Jude. Many people know the most famous verse, you know, contend for the faith once for all delivered to the saints. But then you know, it says, for there's those who have secret in the niv it says those who have secretly slipped in amongst you.

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Melissa Dougherty: how they view New thought, because the law of Attraction is basically this, this fundamental New Thought teaching, but it undergirds the movement.

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Melissa Dougherty: Okay. And this is from the secret written by Rhonda Byrne. That is.

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Melissa Dougherty: This is the problem is that it postures mankind to the position of God. It elevates man, and it demotes God. That is fundamentally everything that you're saying. It's it's the wanting to be your own God. It's the serpent's lie.

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Melissa Dougherty: It's the lie in the garden just regurgitated in a very positive way, and people believe it. You're convinced that not only everything I just read to you. I read as a Christian.

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Andy Miller III: No, this, and you bring up the garden, and I love that you also pulled up Glennon Doyle's book to Untamed, which I think is now that that was kind of my 1st exposure to the Post Oprah versions of some of this stuff. I realized when I was serving a local church that were. There were people in our congregation that were reading that book.

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Andy Miller III: In some of her books, and I I knew of her as a mommy blogger. Not that I was reading mommy blogs, but my, it would have been about this, probably what you said. You had your daughter in 2011 we were having. Our kids were being born about that timeframe. And this is kind of as social media is emerging. You have these spiritual ideas, and it seemed like a kind of a Christian source. Now we were never into her. But then I pull up the some of these.

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Andy Miller III: like ease, rejection like she's like, embrace this like, eat the apple. Yeah, let it burn, that's it. And then so like how I've set that up like when I've kind of preached on, that is that I've said. And by the way, this same woman

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Andy Miller III: then left her family and is now living a lesbian lifestyle and it and and it's it's all good because she's embracing this truth. Her own inner desires. Yeah.

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Melissa Dougherty: So yeah, it's a dance they have to do. But I promise you to them. This makes a lot of sense.

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Andy Miller III: Well, it's it's easy. It's easy for people to fall into this. And and I think it's just something for us to be cautious of what resources I mean. I think going to seminary helps. I think it's like, really good for folks. But what has helped? What are some other things that helped you as you've been emerging from this and what? Where would you point people to outside of your website and your book, which I just want to make sure people know happy lies, how a movement you probably never heard of shaped our self, assess world

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Melissa Dougherty: suggestions. And then suggestions that might sound strange that I but I think that you know, especially if you're a stronger Christian, it would be very helpful, but the 1st one is I would recommend again. I mentioned this in the beginning.

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Melissa Dougherty: critical thinking whatever books you can get on them. Greg Cockle's book tactics right? All he did was it was brilliant because he just repackaged critical thinking.

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Melissa Dougherty: I think that that would be really good, too, because it can help you kind of think these these things through as you're approaching them. Oh, and I also left a. Every chapter has suggestions for each

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Melissa Dougherty: topic, right? And so for the progressive chapter. I recommend Elisa Childers for relativism. Again, Greg, he wrote another book with

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Melissa Dougherty: you know, like learning about these things. But also, yeah, seminary has been very, very helpful because it does teach systematic theology. It does teach prolegominant like it teaches you how to discern, and what the Bible is teaching in a very, very thoughtful way. I think educating ourselves in that higher level is very helpful, and the other thing I would do is once you have that foundation. I would actually read

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Melissa Dougherty: New Thought books, read the secret

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Andy Miller III: Who's that? By? Who's the secret? Buy.

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Melissa Dougherty: Rhonda, Byrne.

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Andy Miller III: Okay.

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Melissa Dougherty: Yeah, it was promoted by Oprah, like, read the books that Oprah recommends. I mean, this sounds.

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Andy Miller III: It's just.

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Melissa Dougherty: Some people. But I'm like, Yeah, like you should know in that regard. And the 3rd thing I would suggest

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Melissa Dougherty: is probably one of the more important things is, get out and talk to people that disagree with you.

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Andy Miller III: Talk, to.

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Melissa Dougherty: These people. This was one of my favorite things to do in writing this book is that I did boots on the ground research, like. I went into the unity centers. I went into the progressive churches. I made the phone calls, and these people are lovely

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Melissa Dougherty: like they are. So they were so welcoming and nice, I mean, and that's part of what I mean. I think people like, but for me

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Melissa Dougherty: I'm used to animosity. Remember, this is one reason why I was so so attracted to these type of Christians.

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Andy Miller III: Bye, bye.

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Melissa Dougherty: Is because they're like, Yeah, bring it on. Let's have a conversation, and let's disagree, and they're happy about it. And for me, that can be alluring for some people, but

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Melissa Dougherty: it's also like a really great way to understand what they believe and why they believe it. And I give some interview the interviews that I go over. I guess I model in a way, how I handled it, and all I'm doing is asking questions. And there's 1 conversation in particular that I saved for the very end.

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Melissa Dougherty: It was a very incredible woman that I met, but I was just asking her questions like I would anybody else. And her responses were unique.

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Melissa Dougherty: And so, just in asking these questions, you will.

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Melissa Dougherty: They will be surprised sometimes that you're even a Christian, because they're not used to that right. Go out and have coffee. Go out and talk to somebody you don't agree with. I know that sounds very strange, but I think that that is the best way to do the great Commission is to do it face to face. And the other thing is, it's hard to forget that they're made in the image of God while you're staring at them in the eye. It can really help us understand our own blind spots, because we can kind of

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Melissa Dougherty: get a little. I don't know. I don't want to say triggered, but I mean it helps us kind of learn to listen. And how are we going to learn to listen if we don't practice it? So I think that that's 1 of the best ways to kind of have a conversation. Understand what that is, because it can be fluid. It depends on who you're talking to like. I said. I would have been more Christian

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Melissa Dougherty: right? And so if somebody, if a Christian came up to me.

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Andy Miller III: Yes.

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Melissa Dougherty: You're practicing the what? The law of what? What is that? Yeah. And I'm like, Oh, it's in the Bible or something, I mean, look, see, it's right there, and it's it's Scriptures right here, showing me how I can manifest and visualize. And they're giving me this side eye, and they're like that. I don't know if that means what you think it means. What do you mean? And you know what I mean. It's like that. You could have this conversation, and really kind of get people to think more so. Those are the 3 things that I think that I would leave everybody with.

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Andy Miller III: Yeah, that's great. Those are really challenging for me, too, I think, even just even if you're not in a place where you're going to respond in such a way to bring them to Jesus. In that moment you know better where people are, by going out and asking questions and listening.

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Melissa Dougherty: Yeah. And then the spiritual warfare of it, too. Yeah, don't forget that. That's a thing I mean, these spirits are real. I think that a lot of us forget that that there's there is a negative spiritual realm out there and praying, praying throughout all of that as well. Yeah.

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Andy Miller III: Now I might have said your last name wrong.

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Melissa Dougherty: No, you didn't.

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Andy Miller III: Dordo hi.

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Melissa Dougherty: Okay.

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Andy Miller III: Garrett. We got it. Got it there it is.

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Melissa Dougherty: Gordy, you did. You did, good man.

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Andy Miller III: My title, my podcast is more to the story. So is there more of the story. Melissa, a lot of your stuff is out there. You're so active on social media and the like. But is there something you don't talk about, something that a hobby? You have something.

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Melissa Dougherty: Oh, yeah, oh, 100%. I'm looking at it right now. I'm a semi-professional artist.

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Andy Miller III: Oh, yeah. Okay.

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Melissa Dougherty: Yeah, before.

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Andy Miller III: Behind you right now. Is that something you did.

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Melissa Dougherty: Yeah, I could say I designed this, but I didn't. I painted some of it.

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Melissa Dougherty: But yeah, I wanted something that was kind of reminiscent of my my book title, but yeah, I'd show you like I this was my bread and butter before I even did anything. Yeah.

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Melissa Dougherty: but I was a semi-professional artist, and I still to this day, no matter what I do in ministry, nothing quite feels like painting. It's I love it. Yeah.

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Andy Miller III: Wonderful. That's fun. Well, thanks so much, Melissa. I hope folks will find where? Where can they find you online? I mean, maybe they can type your name in Google probably find it. But what's the name of your channels and those type of things.

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Melissa Dougherty: Yeah, it's just my name pretty easy, Melissa Doherty. And then I'm on Instagram, Facebook.

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Melissa Dougherty: Twix, because it's just not. It's not X to me, and then I think I already said.

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Andy Miller III: Is that what you call it? Twix.

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Melissa Dougherty: Yeah, man, I'm like, this is better. I I like twix better. It just sounds better.

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Andy Miller III: Never heard that. Yeah.

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Melissa Dougherty: Yeah. X is too strange for me. I'm like grew up with it being Twitter. It's still twitter. But now it's X. So I'm gonna compromise for you, Elon Musk. There you go.

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Andy Miller III: Okay. Yeah.

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Melissa Dougherty: Yeah. So Instagram, Twitter, Facebook and Youtube, those are the 4 ones that you can find me at.

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Andy Miller III: Great. Well, thanks for your time today, and thanks for this book. Look hopefully. Get to meet in person sometime.

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Melissa Dougherty: Yeah, it's been great thanks for having me on.